Thoughts - Deep, Down, Inside…

Some say Love is selfish, some say Love is selfless. Some say Love opens up one’s eyes, while some say Love is blind. Some say Love is torturous, while some say Love is bliss. To me, Love is what it may just seemed as it is. Different people have different perspective, and it all arises from choices It is the choice that one makes that dictates hoe Love should be.
I have seen too many break ups between my friends while in NS, both old and new alike. They say it is a curse for people entering NS, saying break ups are inevtiable. Just because the guys are entering world full of green, shit and guys, while the girls are entering another world full of life, colours and guys also, does it spell doom for couples?
It is especially heart wrenching to see couples break up when I am looking for a partner myself. It is inevitable to ask why must it happen that way? For too long I have not touched Love. For too long the bliss of Love has occured to me, but also for too long the troubles of Love have come to me as well. I may not understand the real reasons for break ups any more, and i may not understand the feelings of having to go through a break up anymore, but I do understand how it feels to turn Love into Hate.
It is only a thin line between Love and Hate, and it feels terrible to Turn Love into Hate. But why must couples always have to turn Love into hate? Or at least why are the couples around me starting to hate each other after a break up?
It is the choice of 2 people to come together, to love each other, to commit to each other. But there is equal amount of riight to have a choice to seperate from each other and start afresh too. But as much as there is equal amount of rights to get together as it is to seperate to each other, why must seperating from each other turn to be such a hateful affair, which is so much different from blissfully getting started together?
Memories are aplenty, and one special thing about it is that one gets to keep it and no one else can take it away from you. And of course, there will be amny wonderful memories that arises from a relationship. Instead of turning to hate due to something like break up which is many a times beyond control, why not turn the Hate into a willingness to let go and be happy for the beautiful memories you get to keep due to the relationship?
And also, always think about those who didn’t even have a chance to have someone dear to love. Be happy that you once were able to love deeply and passionately. It is always yourself who will suffer the most if there is hate within you.

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